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Accessible Roses Awarded at Rose Show

Best Novice, 1st, 2nd, 3rd Place Ribbons

Rose Show: Best Novice, 1st, 2nd, 3rd Place Ribbons
Rose Show: Best Novice, 1st, 2nd, 3rd Place Ribbons
It was our first year entering our Wheelchair-Accessible Roses in the annual New England Rose Society (NERS) Rose Show, held at Tower Hill Botanic Garden on Sunday, June 24, 8am – 3pm. There were many ribbons awarded across many classes. Only a few made it to the head table. “Best Novice” made it, along with “King and Queen” “Miniature King and Queen” “Box Set” “Most Fragrant Rose” etc.

Here’s a summary of our 2018 NERS Spring Awards:
Best Novice and 1st Prize Ribbon (Class 33: Novice): Climbing Rose “Night Owl,” displayed in a vase.
2nd Prize Ribbon (Class 16: One Hybrid Tea or Grandiflora Open Bloom): Fragrant Rose “Rock & Roll,” displayed in a vase.
3rd Prize Ribbon (Class 31: Rose Bowl, Large Rose):
Large Rose “Gold Medal” displayed in a bowl.

Here’s a summary of the 2018 NERS Spring Show:
2018 NERS Spring Rose Show Schedule: Roses Through the Generations

Here’s an article about judging roses: How Roses are Judged at Rose Shows

Thanks to Teresa Mosher and Pam Murphy for their help selecting which 4 of 12 roses we brought to the show were worthy for display and judging. They assisted with:

  1. figuring out which classes to enter.
  2. getting the roses “cleaned up” and near-perfectly set in the display vases and bowls.
  3. coaching on how to fill out the rose entry ID tags.

The eight roses we brought that were not show-ready but still in great shape were sold for $1.00 each at the NERS fundraising table.

I said a few times to different people (to my spouse Karl, to Teresa and Pam helping me, and to Ann Gibson, a rose judge from Syracuse, NY), “We’re not here to win ribbons. We’re here to belong to a group, to participate in the group, to learn from the group, and to continue the great tradition of showing roses for public education and enjoyment.”

Hopefully the ribbons and the “Best Novice” award show that we’re serious about growing our (Wheelchair) Accessible Rose Rodeo festival, and that we’re taking advice and taking notes from the experts.

It’s our second year belonging to this great group of people who have taught us so much about how to grow our 80+ rose plants. Our Accessible Rose Rodeo is made possible by contributions from Peggy Rochon of Arizona, in loving memory of my mom, Margaret Fraser MacDonald.

To see and smell the roses, simply schedule a garden tour with me in July, or come to one of our events: our Memory Cafe 7/21, 10a – 12pm, or Sunday Stroll 7/22, 11am – 2pm.

Moving forward with a listening heart,
vision, inquiry, and action,
~ Mary

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April Showers Grow Inclusion & Access

Debbie's Hat

Maggie and Joan Chiffer Facilitate Drumming & Dancing Group 4/21/18
Maggie and Joan Chiffer Facilitate Drumming & Dancing Group 4/21/18
Our Saturday, 4/21, Memory Café in the Garden® hosted six participants, five volunteers, and one staff member. Four of the participants were from the L’Arche Community in Haverhill, Dan (staff/driver), Debbie, Ryan, and Donald. Two participants were Topsfield residents, Gloria and Bizzy. The volunteers included Sue, Bonnie, and Penny from the Topsfield Council on Aging, and Joan and Maggie Chiffer, a Topsfield mom and daughter (a high-school student, creator and facilitator of the program “Dance out Dementia“). Topsfield Cultural Council funded the Sun Hat Making activity for our March indoor Memory Café at River Road, which was cancelled due to snow, and rescheduled for our Saturday Memory Café in the Garden®. Raquel helped me as a Program Assistant to set-up, break-down, and provide general assistance during the event.

As guests arrive to our Memory Café in the Garden®, they are able to choose from a few options:

  • Enjoy the gardens/picnic
  • Enjoy Bird Tales (bird observation & play)
  • Enjoy Fish Tales (fish observation & play)
  • Enjoy Drums & Dance (music and movement)
  • Enjoy Flower Fun (craft)

Dan, Debbie, and Bonnie at the Craft Table
Dan, Debbie, and Bonnie at the Craft Table
Bonnie assisted at the “Flower Fun” area. She helped Debbie make a very stylish hat featuring silk flowers and craft butterflies.

Sue speaks with Karl, Karl and Bizzy dress garden beds with compost
Sue speaks with Karl, Karl and Bizzy dress garden beds with compost
When I asked Gloria if she and Bizzy would like to make sun hats (wide-brim hats and ball caps were available to decorate with paint and silk flowers), she suggested another option when she saw at Karl in the distance, working in the garden. “I think Bizzy would enjoy helping Karl with the garden.” Bizzy chose to help Karl and me with garden chores, including dressing garden beds with compost and filling bird feeders.

Drums & Dance is a Favorite Activity
Drums & Dance is a Favorite Activity
Maggie and Joan Chiffer started playing around at the “Drums and Dance” area – Dan, Debbie and Bonnie noticed, and decided to walk over and join. What started as play with percussive instruments, became body percussion and dance moves with song, and finished many minutes later with ribbon wands up, down, and around. This activity was enjoyed by the majority of the group for the majority of the time.

Drumming turns into Dancing
Drumming turns into Dancing
Dancing with Hands in the Air
Dancing & Singing with Hands in the Air
Dancing with Ribbon Wands
Dancing with Ribbon Wands

Debbie and Bonnie Appreciate their Sun Hat Creation
Debbie and Bonnie Appreciate their Sun Hat Creation
Towards the end of the program, having had the breeze blow the sun hat off Debbie’s head, Bonnie suggested she bring the hat back next time to add a tying ribbon. As she climbed back into the van to depart, Debbie expressed, “I love leaving our home to come here for a fun time!”

At our Sunday Stroll program, 4/22, Earth Day, we hosted one volunteer, Marlene, three participants from a NE ARC Group home in Danvers, Fatoumata (staff/driver), Gary and David, and one local Topsfield resident and friend, Darcy Fulton, also a landscape designer. Darcy stopped in to see what was new. Fatoumata assisted Gary (wheelchair-assistance) and David (walking) in getting around and experiencing the garden’s highlights. During their visit, we learned more about non-verbal communication through a communication book Gary shared with us. Gary gave me and Karl two sticks of Juicy Fruit gum, which we enjoyed. Fatoumata was surprised we didn’t have plants for sale, to take home. She suggested this would be nice for the future.

The horticultural event of the weekend was witnessing our first standard-size yellow trumpet daffodils open-up. Crocuses are still blooming, along with Ornithogalum balansae.

Moving forward with a listening heart,
vision, inquiry, and action,
~ Mary

Debbie's Sun Hat Creation
Debbie’s Sun Hat Creation
This Event is Sponsored by Topsfield Cultural Council A-Frame Sign
This Event is Sponsored by Topsfield Cultural Council A-Frame Sign
Bizzy and Karl Talk
Bizzy and Karl Talk
Bizzy helps to fill the bird feeders
Bizzy helps to fill the bird feeders
A Non-verbal Communication Book

Yellow Trumpet Daffodil

Purple Crocuses

Ornithogalum balansae
Ornithogalum balansae
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Today! Memory Café and Mid-Winter Mardi-Gras Burn

2018 Mid-Winter Mardi Gras Burn Invite

Join us! All ages welcome.

TODAY: Feb 3, 10am – 12pm
Where: Trinity Church, 124 River Road, Topsfield, MA (Wheelchair-Accessible)
What (Title): Memory Café: Share the Love with Partner Yoga
What (Description): Learn & Experience Body-Based Non-Verbal Communication Skills (bring a friend or come alone) Funded in part by Topsfield Cultural Council and MA DDS.

TODAY: Feb 3, 1pm – 4pm
Where: Rest.Stop.Ranch, 202 Haverhill Road, Topsfield, MA (Not Yet Wheelchair-Accessible)
What (Title): Mid-Winter MardiGras Burn
What (Description): Enjoy fellowship and a bonfire at the Caretaker’s Cottage at our home, Rest.Stop.Ranch. We are celebrating spring arriving soon (see also: Mardi-Gras, Imbolc, Candlemas; https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imbolc )

Bring your self as-you-are: your love, your laughs, your light. Below is a flyer for our Saturday events.

Moving forward with a listening heart,
vision, inquiry, and action,
~ Mary
Interfaith Chaplain

2018 Mid-Winter Mardi Gras Burn Invite
2018 Mid-Winter Mardi Gras Burn Invite
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Reminder: Feb 3 Memory Café and Mid-Winter (Mardi Gras) Burn

Mardi Gras Season is Jan 7-Feb 13, 2018.

Mardi Gras Season is Jan 7-Feb 13, 2018.
Mardi Gras Season is Jan 7-Feb 13, 2018.

Please join us tomorrow, Saturday, Feb 3
In Topsfield: At Trinity Church and/or At our home, Rest.Stop.Ranch,
to celebrate LOVE and HOPE via a non-verbal communication workshop and a Bonfire!
(details below)

Thanks to the Topsfield Cultural Council for funding me as the Creative Director of our Topsfield Memory Café at River Road this 2017-2018 winter season!

Please share these events (Free of Charge) with people who may enjoy and/or benefit.

Date: Feb 3, 10am – 12pm (If snow storm, our Alternate date is Feb 17)
Where: Trinity Church, 124 River Road, Topsfield, MA (Wheelchair-Accessible)
What (Title): Memory Café: Share the Love with Partner Yoga
What (Description): Learn & Experience Body-Based Non-Verbal Communication Skills (bring a friend or come alone)

Date: Feb 3, 1pm – 4pm (If wind prohibits a bonfire on Feb 3, our Alternate date is Feb 11)
Where: Rest.Stop.Ranch, 202 Haverhill Road, Topsfield, MA (Not Yet Wheelchair-Accessible)
What (Title): Mid-Winter MardiGras Burn
What (Description): Enjoy fellowship and a bonfire at the Caretaker’s Cottage at our home, Rest.Stop.Ranch. We are celebrating spring arriving soon (see also: Imbolc, Candlemas; https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imbolc )

Bring your self as-you-are: your love, your laughs, your light. Below is a flyer for our Saturday events.

Moving forward with a listening heart,
vision, inquiry, and action,
~ Mary
Interfaith Chaplain

2018 Mid-Winter Mardi Gras Burn Invite
2018 Mid-Winter Mardi Gras Burn Invite
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Daughters of the American Revolution Award

Karl and Mary with John Greenleaf Whittier, at his "Snow-bound" Room

DAR Members, Wendy Renda and Patricia Babbitt pin Mary, at Whittier Birthplace
DAR Members, Wendy Renda and Patricia Babbitt, pin Mary, at Whittier Birthplace
Who knew? Our local, “Brigadier General James Brickett-Old Newbury Chapter” Daughters of the American Revolution (DAR) resonate with and heartily support our effort to build sanctuary and support for all touched by long-term-illness, including all touched by memory-loss, and Alzheimer’s/Dementia! It was a great honor and pleasure for me and Karl to meet the local chapter on Sunday at the John Greenleaf Whittier Birthplace in Haverhill, MA. There, I received an award certificate, a “DAR Community Service Award” pin (a 5-point star – the same as my life-saving program for dementia caregivers!), and a financial contribution.

It was neat to hear from some of the members… how they’ve watched our gardens grow from 2009 to 2016… on their rides up & down route 97… first a clearing (2009), then a Kitchen Garden deer fence (2010)… then a wheelchair-accessible loop (2011)… then… more and more… “Now I know what’s happening over there!” one member shared with a smile.

For more information about our invitation to meet the Daughters of the American Revolution, and my award acceptance response, please visit:
MaryMac Missions: Pinned by the Daughters of the American Revolution

Karl and Mary with John Greenleaf Whittier, at his "Snow-bound" Room
Karl and Mary with John Greenleaf Whittier, in his “Snow-Bound” Room, at his birthplace in Haverhill, MA
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Award_Daughters_of_the_American_Revolution

Snow-Bound: A Winter Idyl
BY JOHN GREENLEAF WHITTIER

The sun that brief December day
Rose cheerless over hills of gray,
And, darkly circled, gave at noon
A sadder light than waning moon.
Slow tracing down the thickening sky
Its mute and ominous prophecy,
A portent seeming less than threat,
It sank from sight before it set.
A chill no coat, however stout,
Of homespun stuff could quite shut out,
A hard, dull bitterness of cold,
That checked, mid-vein, the circling race
Of life-blood in the sharpened face,
The coming of the snow-storm told.
The wind blew east; we heard the roar
Of Ocean on his wintry shore,
And felt the strong pulse throbbing there
Beat with low rhythm our inland air.

Meanwhile we did our nightly chores,—
Brought in the wood from out of doors,
Littered the stalls, and from the mows
Raked down the herd’s-grass for the cows;
Heard the horse whinnying for his corn;
And, sharply clashing horn on horn,
Impatient down the stanchion rows
The cattle shake their walnut bows;
While, peering from his early perch
Upon the scaffold’s pole of birch,
The cock his crested helmet bent
And down his querulous challenge sent.

Unwarmed by any sunset light
The gray day darkened into night,
A night made hoary with the swarm
And whirl-dance of the blinding storm,
As zigzag, wavering to and fro,
Crossed and recrossed the wingëd snow:
And ere the early bedtime came
The white drift piled the window-frame,
And through the glass the clothes-line posts
Looked in like tall and sheeted ghosts.

So all night long the storm roared on:
The morning broke without a sun;
In tiny spherule traced with lines
Of Nature’s geometric signs,
In starry flake, and pellicle,
All day the hoary meteor fell;
And, when the second morning shone,
We looked upon a world unknown,
On nothing we could call our own.
Around the glistening wonder bent
The blue walls of the firmament,
No cloud above, no earth below,—
A universe of sky and snow!
The old familiar sights of ours
Took marvellous shapes; strange domes and towers
Rose up where sty or corn-crib stood,
Or garden-wall, or belt of wood;
A smooth white mound the brush-pile showed,
A fenceless drift what once was road;
The bridle-post an old man sat
With loose-flung coat and high cocked hat;
The well-curb had a Chinese roof;
And even the long sweep, high aloof,
In its slant splendor, seemed to tell
Of Pisa’s leaning miracle.

A prompt, decisive man, no breath
Our father wasted: “Boys, a path!”
Well pleased, (for when did farmer boy
Count such a summons less than joy?)
Our buskins on our feet we drew;
With mittened hands, and caps drawn low,
To guard our necks and ears from snow,
We cut the solid whiteness through.
And, where the drift was deepest, made
A tunnel walled and overlaid
With dazzling crystal: we had read
Of rare Aladdin’s wondrous cave,
And to our own his name we gave,
With many a wish the luck were ours
To test his lamp’s supernal powers.
We reached the barn with merry din,
And roused the prisoned brutes within.
The old horse thrust his long head out,
And grave with wonder gazed about;
The cock his lusty greeting said,
And forth his speckled harem led;
The oxen lashed their tails, and hooked,
And mild reproach of hunger looked;
The hornëd patriarch of the sheep,
Like Egypt’s Amun roused from sleep,
Shook his sage head with gesture mute,
And emphasized with stamp of foot.

All day the gusty north-wind bore
The loosening drift its breath before;
Low circling round its southern zone,
The sun through dazzling snow-mist shone.
No church-bell lent its Christian tone
To the savage air, no social smoke
Curled over woods of snow-hung oak.
A solitude made more intense
By dreary-voicëd elements,
The shrieking of the mindless wind,
The moaning tree-boughs swaying blind,
And on the glass the unmeaning beat
Of ghostly finger-tips of sleet.
Beyond the circle of our hearth
No welcome sound of toil or mirth
Unbound the spell, and testified
Of human life and thought outside.
We minded that the sharpest ear
The buried brooklet could not hear,
The music of whose liquid lip
Had been to us companionship,
And, in our lonely life, had grown
To have an almost human tone.

As night drew on, and, from the crest
Of wooded knolls that ridged the west,
The sun, a snow-blown traveller, sank
From sight beneath the smothering bank,
We piled, with care, our nightly stack
Of wood against the chimney-back,—
The oaken log, green, huge, and thick,
And on its top the stout back-stick;
The knotty forestick laid apart,
And filled between with curious art
The ragged brush; then, hovering near,
We watched the first red blaze appear,
Heard the sharp crackle, caught the gleam
On whitewashed wall and sagging beam,
Until the old, rude-furnished room
Burst, flower-like, into rosy bloom;
While radiant with a mimic flame
Outside the sparkling drift became,
And through the bare-boughed lilac-tree
Our own warm hearth seemed blazing free.
The crane and pendent trammels showed,
The Turks’ heads on the andirons glowed;
While childish fancy, prompt to tell
The meaning of the miracle,
Whispered the old rhyme: “Under the tree,
When fire outdoors burns merrily,
There the witches are making tea.”

The moon above the eastern wood
Shone at its full; the hill-range stood
Transfigured in the silver flood,
Its blown snows flashing cold and keen,
Dead white, save where some sharp ravine
Took shadow, or the sombre green
Of hemlocks turned to pitchy black
Against the whiteness at their back.
For such a world and such a night
Most fitting that unwarming light,
Which only seemed where’er it fell
To make the coldness visible.

Shut in from all the world without,
We sat the clean-winged hearth about,
Content to let the north-wind roar
In baffled rage at pane and door,
While the red logs before us beat
The frost-line back with tropic heat;
And ever, when a louder blast
Shook beam and rafter as it passed,
The merrier up its roaring draught
The great throat of the chimney laughed;
The house-dog on his paws outspread
Laid to the fire his drowsy head,
The cat’s dark silhouette on the wall
A couchant tiger’s seemed to fall;
And, for the winter fireside meet,
Between the andirons’ straddling feet,
The mug of cider simmered slow,
The apples sputtered in a row,
And, close at hand, the basket stood
With nuts from brown October’s wood.

What matter how the night behaved?
What matter how the north-wind raved?
Blow high, blow low, not all its snow
Could quench our hearth-fire’s ruddy glow.
O Time and Change!—with hair as gray
As was my sire’s that winter day,
How strange it seems, with so much gone
Of life and love, to still live on!
Ah, brother! only I and thou
Are left of all that circle now,—
The dear home faces whereupon
That fitful firelight paled and shone.
Henceforward, listen as we will,
The voices of that hearth are still;
Look where we may, the wide earth o’er,
Those lighted faces smile no more.
We tread the paths their feet have worn,
We sit beneath their orchard trees,
We hear, like them, the hum of bees
And rustle of the bladed corn;
We turn the pages that they read,
Their written words we linger o’er,
But in the sun they cast no shade,
No voice is heard, no sign is made,
No step is on the conscious floor!
Yet Love will dream, and Faith will trust,
(Since He who knows our need is just,)
That somehow, somewhere, meet we must.
Alas for him who never sees
The stars shine through his cypress-trees!
Who, hopeless, lays his dead away,
Nor looks to see the breaking day
Across the mournful marbles play!
Who hath not learned, in hours of faith,
The truth to flesh and sense unknown,
That Life is ever lord of Death,
And Love can never lose its own!
We sped the time with stories old,
Wrought puzzles out, and riddles told,
Or stammered from our school-book lore
“The Chief of Gambia’s golden shore.”
How often since, when all the land
Was clay in Slavery’s shaping hand,
As if a far-blown trumpet stirred
The languorous sin-sick air, I heard:
“Does not the voice of reason cry,
Claim the first right which Nature gave,
From the red scourge of bondage to fly,
Nor deign to live a burdened slave!“
Our father rode again his ride
On Memphremagog’s wooded side;
Sat down again to moose and samp
In trapper’s hut and Indian camp;
Lived o’er the old idyllic ease
Beneath St. François’ hemlock-trees;
Again for him the moonlight shone
On Norman cap and bodiced zone;
Again he heard the violin play
Which led the village dance away.
And mingled in its merry whirl
The grandam and the laughing girl.
Or, nearer home, our steps he led
Where Salisbury’s level marshes spread
Mile-wide as flies the laden bee;
Where merry mowers, hale and strong,
Swept, scythe on scythe, their swaths along
The low green prairies of the sea.
We shared the fishing off Boar’s Head,
And round the rocky Isles of Shoals
The hake-broil on the drift-wood coals;
The chowder on the sand-beach made,
Dipped by the hungry, steaming hot,
With spoons of clam-shell from the pot.
We heard the tales of witchcraft old,
And dream and sign and marvel told
To sleepy listeners as they lay
Stretched idly on the salted hay,
Adrift along the winding shores,
When favoring breezes deigned to blow
The square sail of the gundelow
And idle lay the useless oars.

Our mother, while she turned her wheel
Or run the new-knit stocking-heel,
Told how the Indian hordes came down
At midnight on Concheco town,
And how her own great-uncle bore
His cruel scalp-mark to fourscore.
Recalling, in her fitting phrase,
So rich and picturesque and free
(The common unrhymed poetry
Of simple life and country ways,)
The story of her early days,—
She made us welcome to her home;
Old hearths grew wide to give us room;
We stole with her a frightened look
At the gray wizard’s conjuring-book,
The fame whereof went far and wide
Through all the simple country side;
We heard the hawks at twilight play,
The boat-horn on Piscataqua,
The loon’s weird laughter far away;
We fished her little trout-brook, knew
What flowers in wood and meadow grew,
What sunny hillsides autumn-brown
She climbed to shake the ripe nuts down,
Saw where in sheltered cove and bay,
The ducks’ black squadron anchored lay,
And heard the wild-geese calling loud
Beneath the gray November cloud.

Then, haply, with a look more grave,
And soberer tone, some tale she gave
From painful Sewel’s ancient tome,
Beloved in every Quaker home,
Of faith fire-winged by martyrdom,
Or Chalkley’s Journal, old and quaint,—
Gentlest of skippers, rare sea-saint!—
Who, when the dreary calms prevailed,
And water-butt and bread-cask failed,
And cruel, hungry eyes pursued
His portly presence mad for food,
With dark hints muttered under breath
Of casting lots for life or death,
Offered, if Heaven withheld supplies,
To be himself the sacrifice.
Then, suddenly, as if to save
The good man from his living grave,
A ripple on the water grew,
A school of porpoise flashed in view.
“Take, eat,” he said, “and be content;
These fishes in my stead are sent
By Him who gave the tangled ram
To spare the child of Abraham.”

Our uncle, innocent of books,
Was rich in lore of fields and brooks,
The ancient teachers never dumb
Of Nature’s unhoused lyceum.
In moons and tides and weather wise,
He read the clouds as prophecies,
And foul or fair could well divine,
By many an occult hint and sign,
Holding the cunning-warded keys
To all the woodcraft mysteries;
Himself to Nature’s heart so near
That all her voices in his ear
Of beast or bird had meanings clear,
Like Apollonius of old,
Who knew the tales the sparrows told,
Or Hermes, who interpreted
What the sage cranes of Nilus said;
A simple, guileless, childlike man,
Content to live where life began;
Strong only on his native grounds,
The little world of sights and sounds
Whose girdle was the parish bounds,
Whereof his fondly partial pride
The common features magnified,
As Surrey hills to mountains grew
In White of Selborne’s loving view,—
He told how teal and loon he shot,
And how the eagle’s eggs he got,
The feats on pond and river done,
The prodigies of rod and gun;
Till, warming with the tales he told,
Forgotten was the outside cold,
The bitter wind unheeded blew,
From ripening corn the pigeons flew,
The partridge drummed i’ the wood, the mink
Went fishing down the river-brink.
In fields with bean or clover gay,
The woodchuck, like a hermit gray,
Peered from the doorway of his cell;
The muskrat plied the mason’s trade,
And tier by tier his mud-walls laid;
And from the shagbark overhead
The grizzled squirrel dropped his shell.

Next, the dear aunt, whose smile of cheer
And voice in dreams I see and hear,—
The sweetest woman ever Fate
Perverse denied a household mate,
Who, lonely, homeless, not the less
Found peace in love’s unselfishness,
And welcome wheresoe’er she went,
A calm and gracious element,
Whose presence seemed the sweet income
And womanly atmosphere of home,—
Called up her girlhood memories,
The huskings and the apple-bees,
The sleigh-rides and the summer sails,
Weaving through all the poor details
And homespun warp of circumstance
A golden woof-thread of romance.
For well she kept her genial mood
And simple faith of maidenhood;
Before her still a cloud-land lay,
The mirage loomed across her way;
The morning dew, that dries so soon
With others, glistened at her noon;
Through years of toil and soil and care,
From glossy tress to thin gray hair,
All unprofaned she held apart
The virgin fancies of the heart.
Be shame to him of woman born
Who hath for such but thought of scorn.

There, too, our elder sister plied
Her evening task the stand beside;
A full, rich nature, free to trust,
Truthful and almost sternly just,
Impulsive, earnest, prompt to act,
And make her generous thought a fact,
Keeping with many a light disguise
The secret of self-sacrifice.
O heart sore-tried! thou hast the best
That Heaven itself could give thee,—rest,
Rest from all bitter thoughts and things!
How many a poor one’s blessing went
With thee beneath the low green tent
Whose curtain never outward swings!

As one who held herself a part
Of all she saw, and let her heart
Against the household bosom lean,
Upon the motley-braided mat
Our youngest and our dearest sat,
Lifting her large, sweet, asking eyes,
Now bathed in the unfading green
And holy peace of Paradise.
Oh, looking from some heavenly hill,
Or from the shade of saintly palms,
Or silver reach of river calms,
Do those large eyes behold me still?
With me one little year ago:—
The chill weight of the winter snow
For months upon her grave has lain;
And now, when summer south-winds blow
And brier and harebell bloom again,
I tread the pleasant paths we trod,
I see the violet-sprinkled sod
Whereon she leaned, too frail and weak
The hillside flowers she loved to seek,
Yet following me where’er I went
With dark eyes full of love’s content.
The birds are glad; the brier-rose fills
The air with sweetness; all the hills
Stretch green to June’s unclouded sky;
But still I wait with ear and eye
For something gone which should be nigh,
A loss in all familiar things,
In flower that blooms, and bird that sings.
And yet, dear heart! remembering thee,
Am I not richer than of old?
Safe in thy immortality,
What change can reach the wealth I hold?
What chance can mar the pearl and gold
Thy love hath left in trust with me?
And while in life’s late afternoon,
Where cool and long the shadows grow,
I walk to meet the night that soon
Shall shape and shadow overflow,
I cannot feel that thou art far,
Since near at need the angels are;
And when the sunset gates unbar,
Shall I not see thee waiting stand,
And, white against the evening star,
The welcome of thy beckoning hand?

Brisk wielder of the birch and rule,
The master of the district school
Held at the fire his favored place,
Its warm glow lit a laughing face
Fresh-hued and fair, where scarce appeared
The uncertain prophecy of beard.
He teased the mitten-blinded cat,
Played cross-pins on my uncle’s hat,
Sang songs, and told us what befalls
In classic Dartmouth’s college halls.
Born the wild Northern hills among,
From whence his yeoman father wrung
By patient toil subsistence scant,
Not competence and yet not want,
He early gained the power to pay
His cheerful, self-reliant way;
Could doff at ease his scholar’s gown
To peddle wares from town to town;
Or through the long vacation’s reach
In lonely lowland districts teach,
Where all the droll experience found
At stranger hearths in boarding round,
The moonlit skater’s keen delight,
The sleigh-drive through the frosty night,
The rustic party, with its rough
Accompaniment of blind-man’s-buff,
And whirling-plate, and forfeits paid,
His winter task a pastime made.
Happy the snow-locked homes wherein
He tuned his merry violin,
Or played the athlete in the barn,
Or held the good dame’s winding-yarn,
Or mirth-provoking versions told
Of classic legends rare and old,
Wherein the scenes of Greece and Rome
Had all the commonplace of home,
And little seemed at best the odds
’Twixt Yankee pedlers and old gods;
Where Pindus-born Arachthus took
The guise of any grist-mill brook,
And dread Olympus at his will
Became a huckleberry hill.

A careless boy that night he seemed;
But at his desk he had the look
And air of one who wisely schemed,
And hostage from the future took
In trainëd thought and lore of book.
Large-brained, clear-eyed, of such as he
Shall Freedom’s young apostles be,
Who, following in War’s bloody trail,
Shall every lingering wrong assail;
All chains from limb and spirit strike,
Uplift the black and white alike;
Scatter before their swift advance
The darkness and the ignorance,
The pride, the lust, the squalid sloth,
Which nurtured Treason’s monstrous growth,
Made murder pastime, and the hell
Of prison-torture possible;
The cruel lie of caste refute,
Old forms remould, and substitute
For Slavery’s lash the freeman’s will,
For blind routine, wise-handed skill;
A school-house plant on every hill,
Stretching in radiate nerve-lines thence
The quick wires of intelligence;
Till North and South together brought
Shall own the same electric thought,
In peace a common flag salute,
And, side by side in labor’s free
And unresentful rivalry,
Harvest the fields wherein they fought.

Another guest that winter night
Flashed back from lustrous eyes the light.
Unmarked by time, and yet not young,
The honeyed music of her tongue
And words of meekness scarcely told
A nature passionate and bold,
Strong, self-concentred, spurning guide,
Its milder features dwarfed beside
Her unbent will’s majestic pride.
She sat among us, at the best,
A not unfeared, half-welcome guest,
Rebuking with her cultured phrase
Our homeliness of words and ways.
A certain pard-like, treacherous grace
Swayed the lithe limbs and drooped the lash,
Lent the white teeth their dazzling flash;
And under low brows, black with night,
Rayed out at times a dangerous light;
The sharp heat-lightnings of her face
Presaging ill to him whom Fate
Condemned to share her love or hate.
A woman tropical, intense
In thought and act, in soul and sense,
She blended in a like degree
The vixen and the devotee,
Revealing with each freak or feint
The temper of Petruchio’s Kate,
The raptures of Siena’s saint.
Her tapering hand and rounded wrist
Had facile power to form a fist;
The warm, dark languish of her eyes
Was never safe from wrath’s surprise.
Brows saintly calm and lips devout
Knew every change of scowl and pout;
And the sweet voice had notes more high
And shrill for social battle-cry.

Since then what old cathedral town
Has missed her pilgrim staff and gown,
What convent-gate has held its lock
Against the challenge of her knock!
Through Smyrna’s plague-hushed thoroughfares,
Up sea-set Malta’s rocky stairs,
Gray olive slopes of hills that hem
Thy tombs and shrines, Jerusalem,
Or startling on her desert throne
The crazy Queen of Lebanon
With claims fantastic as her own,
Her tireless feet have held their way;
And still, unrestful, bowed, and gray,
She watches under Eastern skies,
With hope each day renewed and fresh,
The Lord’s quick coming in the flesh,
Whereof she dreams and prophesies!

Where’er her troubled path may be,
The Lord’s sweet pity with her go!
The outward wayward life we see,
The hidden springs we may not know.
Nor is it given us to discern
What threads the fatal sisters spun,
Through what ancestral years has run
The sorrow with the woman born,
What forged her cruel chain of moods,
What set her feet in solitudes,
And held the love within her mute,
What mingled madness in the blood,
A life-long discord and annoy,
Water of tears with oil of joy,
And hid within the folded bud
Perversities of flower and fruit.
It is not ours to separate
The tangled skein of will and fate,
To show what metes and bounds should stand
Upon the soul’s debatable land,
And between choice and Providence
Divide the circle of events;
But He who knows our frame is just,
Merciful and compassionate,
And full of sweet assurances
And hope for all the language is,
That He remembereth we are dust!

At last the great logs, crumbling low,
Sent out a dull and duller glow,
The bull’s-eye watch that hung in view,
Ticking its weary circuit through,
Pointed with mutely warning sign
Its black hand to the hour of nine.
That sign the pleasant circle broke:
My uncle ceased his pipe to smoke,
Knocked from its bowl the refuse gray,
And laid it tenderly away;
Then roused himself to safely cover
The dull red brands with ashes over.
And while, with care, our mother laid
The work aside, her steps she stayed
One moment, seeking to express
Her grateful sense of happiness
For food and shelter, warmth and health,
And love’s contentment more than wealth,
With simple wishes (not the weak,
Vain prayers which no fulfilment seek,
But such as warm the generous heart,
O’er-prompt to do with Heaven its part)
That none might lack, that bitter night,
For bread and clothing, warmth and light.

Within our beds awhile we heard
The wind that round the gables roared,
With now and then a ruder shock,
Which made our very bedsteads rock.
We heard the loosened clapboards tost,
The board-nails snapping in the frost;
And on us, through the unplastered wall,
Felt the light sifted snow-flakes fall.
But sleep stole on, as sleep will do
When hearts are light and life is new;
Faint and more faint the murmurs grew,
Till in the summer-land of dreams
They softened to the sound of streams,
Low stir of leaves, and dip of oars,
And lapsing waves on quiet shores.

Next morn we wakened with the shout
Of merry voices high and clear;
And saw the teamsters drawing near
To break the drifted highways out.
Down the long hillside treading slow
We saw the half-buried oxen go,
Shaking the snow from heads uptost,
Their straining nostrils white with frost.
Before our door the straggling train
Drew up, an added team to gain.
The elders threshed their hands a-cold,
Passed, with the cider-mug, their jokes
From lip to lip; the younger folks
Down the loose snow-banks, wrestling, rolled,
Then toiled again the cavalcade
O’er windy hill, through clogged ravine,
And woodland paths that wound between
Low drooping pine-boughs winter-weighed.
From every barn a team afoot,
At every house a new recruit,
Where, drawn by Nature’s subtlest law,
Haply the watchful young men saw
Sweet doorway pictures of the curls
And curious eyes of merry girls,
Lifting their hands in mock defence
Against the snow-ball’s compliments,
And reading in each missive tost
The charm with Eden never lost.

We heard once more the sleigh-bells’ sound;
And, following where the teamsters led,
The wise old Doctor went his round,
Just pausing at our door to say,
In the brief autocratic way
Of one who, prompt at Duty’s call,
Was free to urge her claim on all,
That some poor neighbor sick abed
At night our mother’s aid would need.
For, one in generous thought and deed,
What mattered in the sufferer’s sight
The Quaker matron’s inward light,
The Doctor’s mail of Calvin’s creed?
All hearts confess the saints elect
Who, twain in faith, in love agree,
And melt not in an acid sect
The Christian pearl of charity!

So days went on: a week had passed
Since the great world was heard from last.
The Almanac we studied o’er,
Read and reread our little store
Of books and pamphlets, scarce a score;
One harmless novel, mostly hid
From younger eyes, a book forbid,
And poetry, (or good or bad,
A single book was all we had,)
Where Ellwood’s meek, drab-skirted Muse,
A stranger to the heathen Nine,
Sang, with a somewhat nasal whine,
The wars of David and the Jews.
At last the floundering carrier bore
The village paper to our door.
Lo! broadening outward as we read,
To warmer zones the horizon spread
In panoramic length unrolled
We saw the marvels that it told.
Before us passed the painted Creeks,
And daft McGregor on his raids
In Costa Rica’s everglades.
And up Taygetos winding slow
Rode Ypsilanti’s Mainote Greeks,
A Turk’s head at each saddle-bow!
Welcome to us its week-old news,
Its corner for the rustic Muse,
Its monthly gauge of snow and rain,
Its record, mingling in a breath
The wedding bell and dirge of death:
Jest, anecdote, and love-lorn tale,
The latest culprit sent to jail;
Its hue and cry of stolen and lost,
Its vendue sales and goods at cost,
And traffic calling loud for gain.
We felt the stir of hall and street,
The pulse of life that round us beat;
The chill embargo of the snow
Was melted in the genial glow;
Wide swung again our ice-locked door,
And all the world was ours once more!

Clasp, Angel of the backword look
And folded wings of ashen gray
And voice of echoes far away,
The brazen covers of thy book;
The weird palimpsest old and vast,
Wherein thou hid’st the spectral past;
Where, closely mingling, pale and glow
The characters of joy and woe;
The monographs of outlived years,
Or smile-illumed or dim with tears,
Green hills of life that slope to death,
And haunts of home, whose vistaed trees
Shade off to mournful cypresses
With the white amaranths underneath.
Even while I look, I can but heed
The restless sands’ incessant fall,
Importunate hours that hours succeed,
Each clamorous with its own sharp need,
And duty keeping pace with all.
Shut down and clasp with heavy lids;
I hear again the voice that bids
The dreamer leave his dream midway
For larger hopes and graver fears:
Life greatens in these later years,
The century’s aloe flowers to-day!

Yet, haply, in some lull of life,
Some Truce of God which breaks its strife,
The worldling’s eyes shall gather dew,
Dreaming in throngful city ways
Of winter joys his boyhood knew;
And dear and early friends—the few
Who yet remain—shall pause to view
These Flemish pictures of old days;
Sit with me by the homestead hearth,
And stretch the hands of memory forth
To warm them at the wood-fire’s blaze!
And thanks untraced to lips unknown
Shall greet me like the odors blown
From unseen meadows newly mown,
Or lilies floating in some pond,
Wood-fringed, the wayside gaze beyond;
The traveller owns the grateful sense
Of sweetness near, he knows not whence,
And, pausing, takes with forehead bare
The benediction of the air.

EMERSON, The Snow Storm.
“Announced by all the trumpets of the sky,
Arrives the snow, and, driving o’er the fields,
Seems nowhere to alight: the whited air
Hides hills and woods, the river and the heaven,
And veils the farm-house at the garden’s end.
The sled and traveller stopped, the courier’s feet
Delayed, all friends shut out, the housemates sit
Around the radiant fireplace, enclosed
In a tumultuous privacy of Storm.”

Thanks to the Poetry Foundation for sharing these poems online.